Isn’t Hiring a Professional Wedding Vow Writer Considered “Cheating”? Here’s the Truth!

Bride and groom reading their wedding vows together on a bridge.

Hey, friend!

When it comes to wedding vows, many couples feel the pressure to write something poetic and meaningful on their own.

And hey, that’s great if you’ve got the time and creativity to spare in the midst of wedding planning.

But if you’re not a writer, you might be considering hiring help.

And then the thought crosses your mind—isn’t hiring a professional vow writer considered cheating?

The short answer: absolutely not!

Her and his wedding vow booklets.

Here’s why:

Your vows should be a reflection of your love, your unique story, and the promises you’re making to one another—not a demonstration of your ability to write like Shakespeare under pressure.

So, what should your vows reflect?

Your love. This is your moment to celebrate the connection that makes your relationship special.

The words you say should come from the heart, not from a place of stress or self-doubt.

Man and woman sitting together on a lake dock.

Your story. Every couple has a one-of-a-kind journey.

Your vows should honor the path you’ve walked together and the future you’re about to share.

A man and woman holding hands, walking on the street.

Your promises. These vows aren’t just about the past—they’re a commitment to what lies ahead.

They should express your hopes, dreams, and the unwavering promises you make to each other.

A couple in bed cuddling with a sign that says "Your Heart I Will Choose" in the background.

So, why stress over sounding like a poet under pressure?

That’s where I come in!

As a professional vow writer, I help couples like you turn your scrambled thoughts into vows that are authentic, heartfelt, and uniquely you.

No more staring at a blank page, wondering where to begin.

Because, at the end of the day, it’s not about who types the words.

What matters is the love and intention behind them.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the thought of writing your vows or you just need a little help finding the right words for your big day, I’ve got you covered.

Professional Wedding Vow Writer sitting with her laptop and drinking coffee.

Photo Cred: Northwest Film Co.

I’m here to guide you through the process and help you craft vows that truly reflect who you are as a couple.

Need help finding the perfect words? I’m your girl!

Let’s make sure your vows are as beautiful as your love story.

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