What kind of wife do you seek to be one day?
A patient wife?
Compassionate wife?
Forgiving wife?
Joyful wife?
Courageous wife?
[You fill in the blank.]
Here is an example from my own wedding vows:
“I seek to be the kind of woman who abides in God daily and who believes that there is always more love to give, mercy to grant, peace to experience, courage to summon, strength to rely on, hope to believe in, service to provide, joy to unveil, and purpose within me through the power of Christ.”